Sandi2, I still do not know if there is a OM. Yes I have concerns but nothing official yet. EA maybe. Maybe I am blind or dense.
The counselor says it is a MLC. She has been home for 13 years and now has decided that she is not happy. Wants to get a job out of the house, financial independent, freedom from marriage. Doesnt like our lifestyle, which is new to me. Everyone says we have the perfect life. Which she says now makes her sick when she hears this.
So she is looking for a job, which I am ok with. Financially it doesn't matter to me if she works or not. I have told her that I will be support of whatever she decides for work. But any support or excited that I show her concerning work. She gets mad. Says that her getting a job isn't going to make everything perfect. I know that but she has said that this is what she wants to do so I am showing support, that's it.
Now I do not ask about her job hunting. I wait until she tells me something and then I show support. My hands are tied right now. So I am detached and giving her space.
