The reason I said what I did is b/c the majority of threads I've read from LBH's. They don't seem to "get" that ending the A is just part of saving the M. After the A, she's going to deal with withdrawal effects and depression.........and that is draining on the H b/c he's ready to get back to "normal" and his patients are still being tried. I think it may be hard on his ego, too, b/c he feels she's feeling this way over loss of OM. If he doesn't know how PEAS work, he may want to give up.
It takes longer than most H's think .
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!