I think it's all the guilt I have about the ways I wasn't a great husband - but no one deserves to be a doormat --
More please...What are you guilty about? What did you do? Honestly.
As for Raul.. why not punch him in the nose? Will you regret it later if you don't? Then again, why bother? It's not about him anyway. You'll have more luck if you take the high road and GET OUT OF THE WAY of her. Think of it this way.. you punch one guy in the nose. Tomorrow there's another, and the next day another, and... This isn't about you or him. See that yet?
AJ
Oh, and please start a new thread..
No hitting here - no worries !!
I usually got my way my wife would not speak up when she wanted something different -- she says she doesn't like the house we purchased, the furniture we purchased, the color we painted the rooms -- so I was not attentive enough to what she wanted.
We talked about kids before we got married I said I only wanted one she said ok - after we had our 1st she asked me a couple of times for another and I said no this is what you agreed to.
I lost my business in 2008 and went into a terrible depression worked 2 other jobs but did not produce nearly what I used to she got very resentful that she made more money than me. I was very sad and cranky ceased to be supportive and become critical.
I wanted hanky panky all the time as well - she would make love to me when she didn't want to.
Sunny
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
