Oh well forget what I said...then..sounds like you are doing some of the same things I am doing. I wait for her to call and then respond way to fast and too eager. One thing I am also trying to figure out is when my W has her period...she is a huge B on those days...and I find myself trying to figure out what is going on with her etc...then I realize...it is more than a cliche. Do what ever gets your mind off her...I think that is the only way to heal...otherwise it is like a wound that you keep picking at making it fester...
