Previous loooooong thread in link below.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2283291&page=24


Optimistic, if there wad one word that could be used to describe my personality it would be optimistic. I look for the good in everything and always hold onto the idea that anything can work and everything has a solution.

Thus sitch is no different and I will continue to look for ways to manage my emotions, better myself physically and mentally. Create a strong, safe and secure environment around me and I will continue to hold onto my optimism!

This lif is to darn short for me to get caught up in the hardships right now. Instead I need to focus only on the good and the creation of more good in ky life.

I have also come to the conclusion that my W does not truly love herself or even have a clear identity. I think that because of these issues and the fact that our skills of communication were severely lacking.

All this being said there IS a solution... The big question is will I/we find it before our relationship slips into the abyss...

JAG signing off till later...


Me - 30
W - 28
M 4
t 6
ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011
Band-aid Jan 11'
ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12