Sounds like he found the script and is reading from it.
He is doing exactly the same thing that they all do,
He is in PAIN and it must be YOUR fault. Who else does he have to blame for HIS PAIN.
So instead of facing it and trying to FIX himself he runs away.
You must let him go. He is going to find every cheeseless tunnel that he can to lessen the Pain. All he needs to do is to click his heals together and he would be back in KANSAS but instead he is off to see the WIZARD.
The lawyer will help to guide you down the right PATH. You need to protect YOURSELF because your husband can not be trusted.
