LA, I really feel for you. I'm sorry that you found what you did, and yes, it is hypocritical.
Please try to restrain yourself. Please don't do what I did and let the snooping get the better of you. Are you sure he is not just confiding in her? I don't want you to end up where I am, which is in a worse situtation than I was a month ago. If she is telling him he is doing the right thing for the kids, that is a good sign.
You've made a lot of progress. I know your funds are tight, but I would make MC or something a priority right now. Is the moving on comment about you or him? The L is also telling him to sit tight, so it doesn't sound like he's flying the coop right now.
Keep doing what you've been doing. I know it is going to be hard. I have to keep POW and what H may be doing when I can't get a hold of him out of my mind. It is very hard to do. Try to keep your mind busy.
I hope that you can try to have a good rest of the weekend. I will be thinking about you.
(((((LA)))))
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
