Thanks for all your thoughts/reflections, Wendy and Beatrice. Isn't life just weird. You think you're in this marvelous marriage, some problems, but for the most part good. Then wham, bam, no thank you ma'am, it's over. For me, it took 7 years, but all that time seems like an instant. Now, here I am, having to make a new life for myself. I think my H started his new life while I thought we were still "trying", so there was no jump for him. But, life isn't fair, we just have to keep a positive attitude, and move on.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Isn't life just weird. You think you're in this marvelous marriage, some problems, but for the most part good. Then wham, bam, no thank you ma'am, it's over. For me, it took 7 years, but all that time seems like an instant. Now, here I am, having to make a new life for myself. I think my H started his new life while I thought we were still "trying", so there was no jump for him. But, life isn't fair, we just have to keep a positive attitude, and move on.