Sorry to hear about this latest email and development with your W. It seems like a lot of us are going thru this ugly legal part of the process now. You are a strong person and you will survive. Yes, focus on yourself to find the strength you need.
You know you are not alone!
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D