It's funny you ask that question I have been thinking about that. I want to puff my chest up and yes, I will wait, and do what it takes. I said my vows, forever is forever. We always told each other that we would not divorce. She came from a split family and it was not fun.

But as I type this and really think about the answer, I don't know. One of the hardest things for me is not having that love and emotional connection. Yes I miss sex but its more than that. It's the smile when you walk in the room or the simple hug or just cuddling in bed that I desperately need.

As a male you start looking around and think about other W. Which messes with your mind as well. I am not someone who would cheat. I do not want to live by myself emotionally for the rest of my life. I have my kids and I love them probably to much. But they cannot provide me with the same love you get from your spouse.

So my long answer is yes, I will wait and live one day at a time. That is what I would expect from her if I was the WAS.

Is it selfish to want that from your spouse?