I really appreciate your input on my questions and comments. See for some reason I really have a hard time grasping that their brains are so scrambled. Because everything they do is so intent! But then again if a person is literally operating on sheer emotion, and letting the emotion control them, well I guess the reality of no ryhme or reason makes sense.
I also never considered the fact that maybe he does make contact during a time that's quiet cause he can think better.
Mirage.... I will look at your past posts, but can you tell me more about your MLC? When did it happen? How long did it last? Are the mood swings really that intense? Pure anger, resentment, then hatred towards a spouse, then 24 hours later almost forgetting about it and missing their friendship, and wanting to connect?
Thanks you guys, it really does help to get some sort of idea of what's going on in their heads, even though we barely even scratch the surface.