Ed if that exchange doesn't resonate with you then nothing will. Cut your losses and move on with your life. You know who she really is . She is showing her true self to you. Move on without her it's time. How long can u continue being her doormat? 3years is long enough. Man up Ed. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out