I think in any situation the botom cna drop out at any time, and thats part of what we learn here. Learn to appreciate where you are at, work on yourself, know that nowbody ever knows what the future holds. remember, todays actions determines what happens tomorrow in many cases. What J3B says that you are letting it stop rebuilding and growth is so true!
Accept it that things have changed because you can never take away the knowledge, but move on and look on it as a learning experience. I always think that these things happen for a reason.
Just a couple of weeks ago, I was feeling mad at the thought of OW, when suddenly, the thought popped in my head that if not for what has happened, I would still be doing stuff that I didn;t know H was getting aggravated. I would never have learned about DB, and would not have gotten closer to God. I would not have learned about how to deal with my D, and in general, stopped to look closely into myself.
My anger disappeared and I thought about how we don't sometimes understand the ways of God. But once again I realized that whatever it is, it has resulted in a better me ( and actually, a better H as well!)
Have you thought about that? what good has this event brought to your life?
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
