I think it's all the guilt I have about the ways I wasn't a great husband - but no one deserves to be a doormat --
More please...What are you guilty about? What did you do? Honestly.
As for Raul.. why not punch him in the nose? Will you regret it later if you don't? Then again, why bother? It's not about him anyway. You'll have more luck if you take the high road and GET OUT OF THE WAY of her. Think of it this way.. you punch one guy in the nose. Tomorrow there's another, and the next day another, and... This isn't about you or him. See that yet?
AJ
Oh, and please start a new thread..
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."