I'm pretty sure your H knows that you're open to reconciling. I don't think you need to state your position and your boundaries. Also, he may not even know where he stands. If you make your timeline explicit, it just becomes an ultimatum. I get the impression that you think R talk will solve the ambiguity of the current sitch. There is no reason for that to be the case and your bringing it up is definitely pursuing. My impression is that we are more likely to err on the side of thinking that the WAS doesn't realise that we're keen and that it needs spelling out. I don't think it does.
Think actions and not words.
My vote is for you to continue what you're doing but bring it down a notch (eg shorter texts) and see what happens. It's just my sense and I may be off but you sound friendlier and more involved to me in your texts than he does.
It sounds as if you're feeling better health-wise though. Have a nice weekend and I look forward to hearing more from you.
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012
