Sandi2, Expecting maybe but wanting is more like it. I suppose it the same thing. Wanting the final goal is the ultimate desire. Patience is my.weakest link. 4 months I had all the oemotions, started with shock, fear, deep hurt and anger. Somedays all of them. I have given her space, I don't ask the controlling questions anymore. I am 180ing ok and getting better at GALing.
Now my emotion is sadness for her. I have finally realized that I can't change her or stop her. I can see the sadness in her face. The struggle of wanting these freedoms and independent ideas are not making her happy. At least that is my opinion. So I wait and wait to see if she will wake up from this fog.
