So Denver, I have been taking your advice and adding some levity to my text messages . We will see how that goes. I mentioned to her that a band i really like is playing for free at a local venue and added a smiley and some exclamation points. She responded with a question of whether I was going with work friends. I just said no because we don't have the same taste in music. She said she hopes i go either way because she knows I really like them. I only post this because you said it would be helpful if I posted some specifics about our text conversations...


Me - 32
Wife - 31
No kids
Married - 3
Together - 6
"I need space" - July 2012
Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012
Separation - September 2012