How? Why? We are divorced which is what she wanted. And....she has an OM..
Really? Have you read the MLC resources? Do you really understand that the divorce was the LEGAL process, the emotional divorce is something totally different.
I am not saying that she wants you back. Only she knows that answer. What I am saying is that maybe Tad...IF you wanted to keep trying that you should try something a little different.
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I guess I am not giving up 100% until she is married. Is that a bad thing? I just don't know
Then IMO, you are standing...and I admire that about you. It is NOT a bad thing IF that is what YOU really want because you love her. If you are standing because YOU are afraid to lose her or afraid to be alone, or afraid to deal with your own issues....well then are you standing or are you stuck.
Also, if you are going to standSTILL that is also not a good thing. Are you really starting to deal with your demons? Are you really starting to find out WHO TAD the man really is? If you are not, then honestly, you are doing yourself and HER a disservice.
Don't make all of this for naught dude.
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I just don't know
IMO, knowing if you want or do not want to STAND is separate from becoming the best person YOU can be. You should do that anyways.
BUT....
Don't do it for her (that would be an expectation wouldn't it) do it for YOU Tad.
I'll check back on Monday buddy for the list of Ten.
Have a good weekend!
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
