Thanks, Eric. I do ask her HOW her night was. There's no fear there.
I used to really grill her due to trust issues. I've learned to stop doing that and sometimes need to remind myself not to do it.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done