Oh, grace, I'm sorry. I know this has to be so hard to deal with.
As for the lawyer, I would tell her that you will have to get your own to review all documents and you will each have to pay your own lawyers. In a divorce, a lawyer only represents one party. I would not let her lawyer advise you. You need to protect yourself.

I know this feels horrible and I wish you peace.

((((NG))))

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing