On 10/10/10

[tadpole1025]

Tad, I read everything on your thread as if it is directed to me, I have always appreciated your honesty and love the advice you are given. I need to heed it too!!!

You're welcome.

What I am saying is that maybe Tad….SHE WANTS to see a little fire in ya.

How? Why? We are divorced which is what she wanted. And....she has an OM.....

I’m gonna go out on a limb here…I think you are still standing dude. I applaud you for that.

I think you need to figure out if YOU want to stand or not. You really cannot do both. YOU stand or YOU don’t.

This is tough. Obviously I really have no reason to stand because we are already divorced. She gets married next summer. I guess I am not giving up 100% until she is married. Is that a bad thing? I just don't know.....

I will work on the list of ten things. Having a hard time coming up with that many, but will try to post them.

Also, no need to apologize my friend.

XW and S19 have been arguing for almost a week now. I have stayed out of it. He's really been giving her a lot of sh!t. I hate the way he feels, but there is nothing I can do about it. It is her mess I guess.

Tad