best and worse thing to ever go through

[eyesopen]

I would like to share a text exchange that w and I had today.

W: I feel like I am standing still. We need to move forward. Can you please fill out the paperwork?

M: No reply

W: I am sorry J and I think you are an amazing man. I just can't keep going through this and putting you through it too.

M: I understand this must be very difficult for you.

W: Are you being facetious. It is horrible.

M: There is a marriage seminar in early November called Retrouvaille. Just wondering if you would be willing to go. It certainly can't hurt anything, if nothing else it may teach us some communication skills. No I am not being facetious, i have never been here before and I am doing the best I can. Sometimes I wish you would get pissed at me and tell me all the terrible things I have done so that I would know what I need to work on. You asked me what my family thought, and honestly there is only one family that matters to me.

W: If you want to go I will go, but please do the papers...not like anything would be final by then.

M: Thank you

So a little validation, no reply about paperwork and she agreed to Retrouvaille. I am feeling a little anxious about the seminar. It is hard not to have any expectations for it. Has anyone been to it? Is there anything to help me prepare for it?