This meant that I was going to stop causing this guild by asking who/what/where.
This may be what you actually need in your sitch. I don’t know only you do. What I get though from reading it (assuming that I am interpreting it correctly)..is that you are AFRAID to ask her a question. There is a difference between asking in casual conversation as a means of having a conversation then actually grilling the person.
Example….
“hey how was your night? Did you have a good time?” Note: I would only ask if the intentions where indeed honorable and not as some sort of tactic.
Or
“hey how was your night? What time did you leave? Did you go anywhere else? Who else was there?
I hope you can see the difference.
Someguy…as hard as it may seem right now, you do not be afraid. Learn to trust YOURSELF and YOUR instincts, especially if they come from a place of peace.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
