After typing that out it all clicked....either this guy is not into my wife...by the way my wife is both physically attractive and has a fun personality... or he is a freaking genious.....by not pursuing he is being pursued and it does not matter how unattractive he is... his lack of pursuit is making him desireable......
Or it could be my wife left her husband (his wife left him), she has 3 kids that are 6, 3, 2. Her mom is a permanant part of the family and will always live with her till she is dead or in a nursing home which is a long ways away. That is alot of baggage to undertake right after going through your own devorce....who knows....
M:30 W:31 D:6&1 S:3 Married 9 years 8/8/2012 ILYBNILWY Bomb Dropped: July 2012 Legally Separated: 8/3/2012