there are others who realize that being nice and picking up crumbs is not a measurement of success. That doing what is right and difficult at times to move the boat forward is a far better path to take. A little support on the right to keep the path straight and a little questioning , soul searching , making difficult choices and realizing the goal they actually want.
^^^^^^ What a great post. BTW Arsene, I've mentioned it before, have you read No More Mr Nice Guy? The title's somewhat misleading because it's not about being a jerk. I dont know if it's fitting for you but it's a really good read! Just a quick Google search and the entire ebook comes up, for free!