So don't stand for your marriage, stand for you. Keep doing what's best for you.
If you like talking to him and it works for you, keep doing it just ...have no expectations.
If talking to him causes too much grief then you have a decision to make.
Keep working on Ro, the rest will fall into place.
Oh and, you worry too much. (((Ro)))
You know I love you. :-) I do like talking to him. And I can say last night, I didn't have any expectations. It was like talking to a friend I hadn't talked to in a week or two. I'll see how the calls for a few weeks and re-evaluate how I'm feeling.
They are at the dr now. So I guess H will call when he knows something.
And yes, I know I worry to much. *big cheesy grin* Working on it!
