I'm trying to get back to the GAL me. I think I was doing so well at that, but maybe I had been ignoring the emotions & they caught up with me? Its been 6 months since I finally had enough of the yo-yo treatment from H and really tried to detach. I still struggle with how to detach, stand up for myself and yet have some type of relationship, if its only one where we co-parent; basically how much interaction.This is my newest dilemma; H just sent me a txt. He wants the kids Sunday. Now that I'm working full time, I value my (every other) weekends with my children. I never ask to take time from his weekends. I thought I would say"This is what we are doing, you can join us but I would like to spend time with them too since our time together is limited these days." I don't really like spending time with him, but if it will make my kids happy... Is this the way I should handle this?
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12
