Originally Posted By: NotSureWhatToDo
Why is this "place" called divorce busting when mostly it is divorcing / divorced and stuck / bitter and stuck?

I am read, read, reading but it just seems to me that I need to go ahead and get divorced since there is no hope...


NSWTD,

What's your story? You post it here and I'll likely authorize it.

Your definition of success is a saved marriage right?

Because you didn't type into google:
"Ways to grow while my wife wants a divorce."

OR

"MLC and how to become a better person"


For guys off the tope of my head:

Denver
Starsky
Me

There are others,

some posters fix their marriages and don't post anymore.


Those seem like long odds regardless don't they?



If you were in Vegas, I wouldn't put money down...

However, and this is a big however...

This isn't Vegas.


This is your marriage.

If you had a 1 in 2 chance of being married you would this.
(no brainer)
If you have a 1 in 10 chance you would od this.

What if it was 1 in a 1,000,000,000 chance?
Would you still try?

Isn't your marriage worth it? Isn't she?

She should be, so should your marriage.

Never look at the last number, becuase you are always aiming to the 1 no matter what.

Post your story please so people can identify with you start talking with you and try to help you.

You came here for a reason, willing to bet, hopefully it wasn't to make snide comments. ; )


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