Well I am hopeful. And I am worrying about me (and my daughter) and in order to do that fully, I am going to have to put him in a very hard position with his child, his finances, his life really and I feel really horrible for having to do it. And if I do all this, for example, make him sell "his" truck so we can split the money, how would he ever want to reconcile? He already said he would be pissed if I forced him out (which I can do with a court order). Isnt there a point where its taking it too far making it "look" like I've dropped the rope? I don't want to drop it at all
Yes that is normally called ENABLING. Which is what you will be doing if you dont stand up for yourself and your children.
Sorry but you have to drop the rope. It is his divorce right?
