Trust me I have a life I'm not moping around the house
Good to know.
I noticed that the issue appears to be finances and I can totally understand the stresses that they cause. It also appears to me, that your W looks at you as the one to “bring home the bacon”. In my M, I was the one responsible for the finances and I have to say I really did not do a great job, that said, what I learned was that…I should have sat down and laid out the finances on a monthly basis. I’m not sure it would help but maybe if you sat down with her and BOTH of you came up with a realistic budget (and trust me I understand that you can be let go, until the next job comes around).
At the end of the day, neither of YOU can redo the past. It is what it is BUY you can make changes for YOUR future. Those changes may require some cuts here and there but maybe if she is part of the process she will feel a bit better. The only downside to this COULD be that she may get pissed at the amount of debt that you guys have. So if you come up with a plan with her, let her vent and do not take it personal.
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My curiosity has gotten to me since my feelings are slowly starting to drift towards wondering if I can continue doing this.
For better or for worse……..This IS the worse part.
BTW, what else can you tell me about your W. What does she do, what hobbies does she have, etc.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
