but i have been reading one the last few days that has rocked my perception of myself. No more mister nice guy, has opened my eyes to see how i have been doing things in order to gain approval, doing for W in hope of having it returned and how i tend to try and control and manipulte situations, and putting others needs ahead of mine hoping mine will be met in exchange.
Yup, I saw a lot of myself in that book too. It's a good book, it's really helped me to let go of a lot of my expectations regarding doing stuff for validation from others. And man, it is so on target regarding the shady side of "nice" guys. It was helpful in that regard too, it's a lot easier to fix your problems when you know what they are
