Well I am hopeful. And I am worrying about me (and my daughter) and in order to do that fully, I am going to have to put him in a very hard position with his child, his finances, his life really and I feel really horrible for having to do it. And if I do all this, for example, make him sell "his" truck so we can split the money, how would he ever want to reconcile? He already said he would be pissed if I forced him out (which I can do with a court order). Isnt there a point where its taking it too far making it "look" like I've dropped the rope? I don't want to drop it at all