Not much has changed in the past few days, unfortunately but I have been really good with my PMA. He is going to be "away" this weekend so he is still "gone for good". I finally have my book and will devour it this weekend but just not sure if it is a lost cause now. We are still living together but if he insists on moving on then I have to start preparing myself for moving on as well, even tho I love him and want it to work. But it means going to a lawyer and looking at dividing our assets which is going to turn into an ugly battle im sure of it. I don't want to stand still and let him walk over me and take everything and me and my daughter get left with nothing but how do I do this amicably? For example, he thinks when our house sells (he still will not move out) he is going to walk away with our truck and if he is serious then I cannot let him do that because half of that truck is mine and I will need money to buy a new home for me and my daughter.
Has anyone gotten to this point? Can I really go through a full legal separation and still expect things to work out someday? Am I being foolish?