... But, as we agreed, time is VERY much on my side if that is the case... Here's why:
As the "darkness" continues, so too does HER life... and when things start to go wrong in her "Newly perfect world" and her instinct is to try to think of someone to blame... she'll search for me... Not finding me, she'll have to either blame someone else (friend or OM or whatever) or she'll have to start looking inward.
But even if the above paragraph is not accurate at all, by setting these boundaries lovingly and letting her know my feelings of wanting to reconcile and work on our marriage as soon as she's willing to put a little "skin in the game", I've put the ball back in her court... Which I desperately needed to do, as I've been driving this for the entire time she's been gone.
