What if you KNEW that this meeting with OM next week, was going to be her opportunity to tell him it's over? Or, what if you knew that she was going to see him and he was going to suffer by comparison to the new you, thus leading her to break it off?
By this train of thought, every betrayed spouse that feels they are "the better option" for their cheating spouse, should just allow the cheating spouse to meet up with their OM/OW without any discussion or confrontation. That's horrible logic.
Yes, MakeItRight should BE the better option . . . doing everything he can to improve himself and work on those issues that HE believes he needs to work on to become a better mate, be it for his wife or for someone else down the road. But I don't think he should sit idly by and just wait for his wife to take an EA to a full-blown PA, and do nothing . . . do you?
