I like your overall plan and goals, but I'm not sure making goals for other people (I'd like W to...)is a good way to get to where you want to be.

Turn those around so they focus on what you can do and it will be attainable.

Good luck.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss