Originally Posted By: eyesopen
Finally signed up for coaching. Thought I could figure it out on my own, but have realized that I need some guidance. Besides I have always had trouble asking for help, so it feels good to take this step. I am looking forward to the coaching.

Any advice on how to be best prepared for my first session?


I'd be prepared with a short version of your situation. A list of your 180s, a list of what's worked, and what hasn't.


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done