In my state maybe things are different, but my L asked me what I thought I would gain by contesting my H. We'd both spend a lot more on attorneys fees, and we'd end up just as divorced. However, it may be possible to slow things down. The more you fight her the more justified she will feel in doing what she's doing.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
