People are in control of very little. The only thing you have some control over is your attitude and your internal work that allows you to be at peace with yourself as you travel this thing called life.
People die suddenly - Control? nope, People drop bomb - Control? nope, People say ugly things about you Control? nope, Lightning strikes somewhere, control? nope.
What you do control is you and your outlook, nothing more and that makes all the difference.
you can analyze MLC all you want. In my MLC it was a land of complete confusion, utter chaos in my mind. People say MLC is an excuse to behave badly. I disagree, and this is subjective but my chemistry, brain something changed or snapped and I was basically a walking Zombie. I wish I could articulate it better but there was nothing of substance there.
I will say I made it through, and I get it now!!! I understand. Unfortunately a lot don't. For that I am sorry because MLC does destroy families and marriages. But the upside is it gives you a chance to grow, to finally grow up, to have more mature relationships with people that have grown up as well.
It helps us understand that our life is in constant change. We are to embrace that change as it allows the things that happen in life to pass through us and not knock us to the ground.
Here's to you and your journey to a better internal life, and that is a gift.
