Thank you for your post. Very sorry you are dealing with the loss of a parent, I have lost both of mine and know its a difficult time.

I did some quick scanning and it does seem there are some similarities between our sitchs.

I haven't decided WHAT I want yet; was attempting to use this forum to sort that out.

To all those who protest my decision to not post again... well I don't know what to say. I apologize for the upset, and I do thank you all for your concern and interest.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.