From what ice read on your thread, you handled the OW coming up to you and your H in the car remarkably well. "Well look where that got me" - to a Tori being a better Tori. Obviously I have a goal of wanting to save my M, hence me being here, but you tried all you could, like I and many of us are trying to do.
No word on IC, as she is in the process of setting up her new office. That may be another 2 weeks. W confided that she really wants to be able to unload a lot of emotion simply to a neutral party and be heard. So that's a good thing.
Last night ended well. W and D11 worked together ob some school work. The nous played with Halloween stuff, while I set up the computer on a new desk we bought. I could have left the WiFi broken as it was "killing" W that it wasn't working, bit once I figured out where I went wrong, I was the better man and "fixed" it. . While I was moving the stuff, I was also organizing and getting rid of old stuff. It was honestly a little sad going down a mini memory lane (old notes and photos). I found a personal narrative I wrote her shortly after the bomb drop, she said she wanted to keep it. ??? I also found our "informal" last will and testament, she said let's keep and it "kind of makes me sad". Not sure exactly how come. We chit chatted a little more, including her calling me to look at some funny Pins, and then off to bed we each individually went. Before she went upstairs she did ask if I'd be "pissy" with the mess that our downstairs had become. I responded calmly with a no and thenade a joke out of it. Ice been using humor, to deal with some of this gor myself, and lately I've noticed that she has been laughing, that we have been laughing. As far as anger, I've been trying to "slow my roll" with everything including the puppy. Is it worth it to get aggravated and then mad? I can say that I have been more aware and able to.change how I respond much of the time. So I have a follow up appt in a few hours at the drs. (cholesterol and thyroid check - no known issues for me). While there I am also going to ask for std test, not that I have been active with anyone other than W back in mid July, but simply to be safe for me. I'll probably leave early so I can pick up a fee DIY things for later on. Then W will leave early afternoon for the weekend. Time to.find some fun things to do with the kiddos. I'll be more active on here the next few days.
. While I was moving the stuff, I was also organizing and getting rid of old stuff. It was honestly a little sad going down a mini memory lane (old notes and photos). I found a personal narrative I wrote her shortly after the bomb drop, she said she wanted to keep it. ??? I also found our "informal" last will and testament, she said let's keep and it "kind of makes me sad". Not sure exactly how come. We chit chatted a little more, including her calling me to look at some funny Pins, and then off to bed we each individually went. Before she went upstairs she did ask if I'd be "pissy" with the mess that our downstairs had become. I responded calmly with a no and thenade a joke out of it. Ice been using humor, to deal with some of this gor myself, and lately I've noticed that she has been laughing, that we have been laughing. 
