Hmmm very interesting.

So what Im seeing here, is he's got a control freak at home.

Yet it's completely normal for him to try and still control things with me and the girls.

And if he's doing that, its more than likely out of sheer resentment towards OW by him allowing her to control things, so lets pick on XW a bit to balance it out.

OHHHHh BOY..... well my conclusion is that yes he's in MLC, but there's been some SERIOUS issues he's managed to hide for SO long and now they're coming out to play and play hard. Mix that with MLC....and there ya have it. Hind sight is being 20/20 alot lately, and I have a very long history to remember with him.

Sorry guys it may appear that Im trying to analyze too much, but I am an analytical person by nature. I also strive to find the root cause of things, so when something seems odd, I just want to know why. When I know why, then it all clicks and I understand and can be in complete acceptance.


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.