T, What a week that you have had! Your son has moved out, but he's not that far away and the relationship will take on a new spin from being that "little boy" at home to a grown man. I think you both will enjoy the "new" interactions as they come along.
Your son's moving out may send your w into a little bit of a tailspin, but she's far enough along to be stronger and weather the storm. She's recognizing things about herself and that's good. She's progressing nicely and yes, slowly, but that's the way you want her to finish up her crisis. You do not want her to miss one step and go through this again.
So, what are you going to do w/your son's vacant bedroom? An office, craft room or something else?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
