I suppose that we all see something worth saving in our marriages. I read on this site of so many people who say they had a great relationship and they were the envy of their friends and family. That they respected one another and were best friends, soul mates.

If I thought for a second that my M had been just a monotonous routine relationship or that we had been unhappy with daily arguments and displays of disrespect. I don't know that I would be fighting for it. I probably would have thought that this was for the best.

But no, like many of us, I believe that we had a great relationship with loads of potential for improvement. All we need is for both of us to work as a team on this and I know we will find happiness again.

My C told me I was obsessed. She said she'd never seen anyone so in love and dedicated to their WAS and she didn't think it was healthy.

I guess I'm on the market for a new C. smile

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then