Originally Posted By: Tumbling

I know you mean well but you haven't taken one step in my shoes. No one knows how they'll respond til they are in such a situation. I wouldn't have thought I'd stand so strongly or long for my marriage but here I am. Pls respect my choices as I would respect yours & as I continue to respect those of my H. If you find that hard then let's not talk about it anymore.
Then I change the subject w now, who's round is it?


That's pretty much how I handled it as well. And it is the truth. No one knows what they are going to do with a particular situation until they are actually faced with it. One of the big lessons that I learned through all of this.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce