Hi AT, on my phone so this won't be long. Just wanted to say I understand how hard it is when well meaning friends offer their opinions on your stand. I've been standing for 2 yrs & it doesn't get any easier to handle when they pipe up.
My standard ansa now is - I know you mean well but you haven't taken one step in my shoes. No one knows how they'll respond til they are in such a situation. I wouldn't have thought I'd stand so strongly or long for my marriage but here I am. Pls respect my choices as I would respect yours & as I continue to respect those of my H. If you find that hard then let's not talk about it anymore. Then I change the subject w now, who's round is it? Or so, what did you do on the w/e?
I regularly have to give my mom this one!
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"
