My M can be saved, but I need your help/advice!!!

[sandycay]

I think you have been given great advice but I do have a soapbox issue:

You should NOT sleep with someone who is sleeping with someone else.

The moment I found about my ex's affair partner (who was married too) I went to the Dr. and he did too at my insistence.

I was negative, he was positive.

Please make sure you understand your life time commitment to your body and health.

I am sorry you are in this situation but STD's are no joke and someone exposing you to them without your knowledge is sh*tty!