OK 25 told you to do some GAL and detaching. You are trying to maintain a connection. Your wife is grieving the loss of her mother. She is depressed and has told you ILUBINILWU.
Why is 25 telling you to do those things? You apparently dont believe that detaching is a good idea.
SO I am telling you that it IS a good idea and that 25 does know a thing or two about this subject.
And the reason maybe your marriage may be rebuilt is that you have had a long connection.
Do you think her grief and depression have anything to do with YOU? Do you think YOU can FIX this?
Can you point me to anyones marriages that have been saved by doing what you are doing?
