A question for those who were WAS. Those of you who were treated bad in your M and have Reconciled was it one specific thing that triggered you to reconcile with your S or was it consistent time + changes in your S that madebyou want to reconcile?
Mandy was a WAS and posted a bit about her "recovery" here:
The interesting thing is she doesn't really talk about any big changes her husband made to draw her back, she describes it as more of a fog lifting and that she suddenly remembered the good things in the M and felt herself falling in love with him again. She does mention an encounter with him where she was surprised at how confident, strong and happy he seemed, and that it had an impact on her. That sounds straight out of DR
