After having some time to think about it, i feel that stbx is trying, lately, to put me in positions where I blow up at him.

I think he wants me to be the one to drive the D now.

I still haven't received papers even though he said he filed them in July/August.

I feel like he's trying to get me to be responsible for ending our M - by baiting me to do things that make his view of our 'incompatibility' valid.

Mother Teresa needs to be my constant role model.